As we approach New Year’s Eve its clear that many changes are coming to the Travel with Teens and Tweens household in 2012.  With #1 Son going off to college in the fall, things will never be the same — but – rather than focus on past, we’re looking ahead to 2012 with the following list of resolutions to celebrate this coming year of change!

  • Resolution #1 : Celebrate #1 Son’s graduation from high school and transition to college – somewhere!  With two acceptances in hand, and several more on the way (we hope) it is just a question of where and when rather than if…
  • Resolution #2 : Squeeze in one more family vacation with the four of us to one of our all time favorite destinations - - the house at the Jersey Shore is already booked for July 2012!
  • Resolution #3 : Take a mom and dad alone trip – haven’t done this in 19 years so its about time!  Vegas anyone?
  • Resolution #4:  Let the baby bird spread her wings – the Princess is begging for more weeks of sleep away camps and service trips.  As she turns 15 its time to let her take more responsibility and gain a new level of travel independence
  • Resolution #5: Start a new blog focused on a new era of family life – this one is actually well on its way as Mary T just launched her new venture:  My Half Empty Nest

With #1 Son transitioning to college and the Princess doubling up on summer sleep away camps and school year service trips, Mom and Dad are going to have a lot more time to ponder such issues as how to pay for college and camps and to think about topics like downsizing and time for the two of us.

For Mom and Dad 2012 will be a bittersweet year filled with great excitement about proms, graduations and hockey playoffs, tinged with a sense of loss and transition.  We’ll still be posting here at Travel with Teens and Tweens throughout the  year as well as over at My Half Empty Nest.  We hope to see you at both sites!

Happy New Year to all our readers and sponsors – we enjoyed your support in 2011 and hope it continues into 2012.

 

For high school seniors, Halloween isn’t just a day on the calendar that provides a reason to dress up and attend parties.  Rather, it marks the deadline for filing Early Decision and Early Action college applications since most are due by November 1st.   For those readers who are not as far down the college application rabbit hole as we, are a little context might explain why tonight is such a scary time for so many teens.

At many colleges, the applicant’s chances of getting accepted can be significantly higher if they make an early application and it can be further impacted by the type of Early Application that is filed.  Specifically:

  • Option A: Early Decision is a binding process that generally results in the highest percentage of applications being accepted when compared to any other group that applies to a specific institution in a given year.   Each student can make only one Early Decision application and is bound to attend that college if accepted, as long as the school is able to meet the student’s financial needs as defined by the gods at the College Board CSS Profile and Federal Fafsa programs.  Students are generally informed about the outcome of their Early Decision application sometime near the end of the calendar year while those who file regular decision won’t get notified until as late as April 1.
  •  Option B: Early Action applications provide the student with an opportunity to get a decision by mid January or sooner.  They  are not binding and students can file as many as they want, with many students doing several in a mad rush during October.  Early Action candidates can often have an edge over the regular decision applicant pool, although how much of an advantage can vary widely from school to school.

Some schools offer only Early Action, some offer only Early Decision and some offer both – turning the mere act of deciding when to apply into a stressful exercise.

Making  things even more frightening for high school seniors is the fact that Halloween probably represents the peak of academic stress during their senior year.   Most are taking heavy course loads filled with AP and Honors classes and are facing a barrage of end of quarter tests and projects, knowing that many selective colleges will want to see the first quarter transcript.

Halloween Used to Be a Lot More Relaxing

For the average 18 year old who is applying to selective colleges, Halloween means that the Common Application essay has to be cut down to 500 words, the activities resume has to polished until it shines, college specific supplemental essays need to be fine tuned, transcripts, SAT reports and teacher references that were requested months ago need to be on file and the in-person interview has to have been completed.  And of course, it all needs to be done while keeping up those grades and participating in a full range of sports and service work.  No wonder most of them get about 5 hours of sleep this time of year!

By comparison, watching the little ones coming to the door for their candy tonight, I thought back to all those  years when the most stressful thing we had to worry about was finding THE costume and figuring out how to cope with those candy-induced sugar highs.  For high school seniors, Halloween is a whole lot more alarming and complicated than it is used to be.   The good news is that they will get those applications done, just as the early Halloween snow on our lawn will melt in a day or two.

For all the high school seniors out there that are finishing up applications today we wish you luck and hope that a few months from now your email box will be filled with acceptance treats!

Happy Halloween to our hardworking high school seniors from the gang at Travel with Teens and Tweens!

 

      Regular readers know we spent a good part of the winter planning  a family cruise vacation to Alaska to coincide with the end of the school year and the princess’s graduation from Middle School.  Although we built some buffer time into the schedule, the brutal Northeast winter of 2010-2011 was more aggressive than we expected.   As the snow days piled up graduation and end of year events got pushed further and further out on the calendar until we had to choose – graduation or the cruise?!?

     We know there are many family travelers out there who would probably have ditched graduation but we went the other way.  With a myriad of work, camp, college visits and personal commitments hemming in the rest of our shortened summer travel season we bit the bullet, canceled the cruise and transformed our trip into a fly and drive vacation leaving the day after school gets out.   While we are all a little sad to miss the cruise experience we’ll still get to see glaciers and bears fishing for salmon.  We’ll fit in our flightseeing trip and visits to Native Heritage sites.  And we’ll get to see the Alaska and Seattle cousins as planned.

     Needless to say, scrambling to totally restructure a major family vacation trip on less than 2 months notice proved to be challenging but ultimately worth it.  We successfully got back the cruise deposits but learned more than we wanted to know about airline change fees.  We dumped the trip notes for Juneau and Ketchikan and rapidly  researched options within driving distance from the cousin’s hometown of Anchorage.   Many thanks to all our travel blog  and twitter buddies whose Alaska posts we turned to for inspiration.  We want to particularly thank Erin from AK on the Go – the site is a virtual treasure trove of great ideas for family activities in the 49th state.  From museums to hikes to coffee shops and activities she was a major help in getting us oriented.

     As you’ll see in just a few weeks, our itinerary is shaping up nicely.  After a quick weekend in Seattle to check out Pike Place Market and the Space Needle we’ll jet to Anchorage for a day or two seeing local sites with cousins then go play tourist on the Kenai Penninsula while they go to camp and work – - since we changed plans so late they had some conflicts too!

     During our travels we’ll  take a day cruise to view the glaciers of Prince William Sound from Whittier.  We’ll stay in Girdwood for a day or two and ride the tram to the top of Mt. Alyeska and look for Beluga Whales along the coast.  Then we’ll explore the Kenai Peninsula, stopping to fish, flightsee and hopefully view bears.  From there we’ll head back to Anchorage for more time with the the family and to take some cousins’ choice daytrips north of the city.  Camera Guy can’t wait!

     Have you ever faced the choice between school and vacation plans?  How did you handle it?  If a graduation hadn’t been on the line we might have made a different decision but after 9 years since kindergarten with the same wonderful group of friends and families it didn’t seem right to miss all the festivities associated with such a major teen transition!  Wish us luck on our adventure!

Photo courtesy Ted Stevens Anchorage International Airport


 
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